Dear friend:

On Frost's Descent, the wind is cooler than in previous days. The leaves outside the window are falling, and perhaps the seed of "wanting a baby" in your heart is becoming somewhat heavy due to all the tests, appointments, and waits that you're going through.

Leila wants to take this weekend to talk about nothing but honest feelings, without any policy discussions or data analysis.

1. We understand your anxiety

You're not not trying hard enough. You've calculated your ovulation times, adjusted your diet, canceled social events, and even searched late at night to find out why you still can't get pregnant. What really wears down people during pregnancy preparation isn't physical exhaustion, but rather the sense of powerlessness when you don't have control over the situation.

Please believe that this anxiety doesn't mean you're doing anything wrong. It simply shows how much you care.

2. Take it slow. It's okay

As with seasons, we need to focus on nurturing and harvesting. Modern medicine tells us that age, ovarian reserve, and sperm quality are the key factors that affect the outcome, not whether you're "ready" today. All the necessary tests have been done, all the assessments have been given... For the rest, please allow yourself to "wait a little longer".

3. You're not alone

At Leila's Baby, we've seen many families like yours. Some people succeed after three years of efforts, others adjust their plans along the way, and others find different ways to achieve their dreams. Every journey deserves respect. What we want to do is to provide you with a place where you can ask for guidance when you're confused about what to do next.

4. This winter, we'll be with you

After Frost's Descent comes Start of Winter. This series of live broadcasts focuses on preparing for pregnancy during colder months. We also offer answers to questions whenever needed. We don't promise results, but we guarantee to use reliable information to help you navigate this uncertain path more confidently.

It's cold outside. Remember to wear more clothes, and also remember to be gentle with yourself.

Wish you peace!

                                                                      Leilaiwa hereby declares...