First, it's not that I don't want to have a baby, but I don't dare to "miss the peak" to have a baby
A set of data from UN Women is particularly heartbreaking: in the past 30 years, the global gender inequality rate has dropped by only 2%. The phenomenon that women's income is always lower than that of men in the same position has not been eradicated in any country. In the world of working women, this inequality is more concrete as invisible "marriage and childbearing filters".
:,,6.39%.On the other hand, there are only a handful of men who encounter such injustice. As a result, we saw that topics such as "fertility is the professional ceiling" and "working mothers have little ability to separate themselves" continue to dominate the screen. 63.98% of working women bluntly said that childbirth has become an "burden that cannot be shaken off."
.Du Ruoxi, a 34-year-old actor, admitted in a variety show that her figure was out of shape after giving birth to a child. She submitted more than 70 resumes of the crew, but only received 3 responses. Just like Gu Jia in "Thirty" and the working mothers in "Sisters Who Ride the Waves and Waves", the public not only praises their bravery, but also criticizes them with the yardstick of "balancing family and career"-but who will pay for their "time conflict"?
When traditional fertility concepts meet the pace of the modern workplace, changes are taking place.
,.Data from the National Health Commission show that from 2016 to 2019, the average age of first childbearing for women of childbearing age in my country has been postponed to 26.8 years, and more and more women choose to give birth after the age of 35. The confidence of all this comes from the popularization of egg freezing technology-it finally makes it possible for women's fertility clock to be "autonomous adjustment".
,“”,“”.Properly storing high-quality eggs during the golden reproductive period before the age of 30 is equivalent to "saving health capital" for future babies in advance. Waiting until your career is stable, your income is abundant, and your living condition is better before nurturing life will not only avoid conflicts during the upward period of the workplace, but also give children a more mature environment for growth.
:“”,.Just like the ancients said,"A gentleman is good at deceiving things", intellectual and tenacious women are using cutting-edge technology to steer their lives, so that childbearing is no longer a "time-limited task" but a "choice at your heart."
The popularization of egg freezing technology is inseparable from the tolerance and progress of the entire society.
,.Xu Jinglei and Lin Zhiling publicly shared their experiences of egg freezing and broke topic taboos; Zhan Qingyun and other legal persons spoke out for women's reproductive rights from a professional perspective; Ctrip and other companies took the lead in providing fertility preservation benefits to female employees; Hu Smell, 36Krypton and other media continued to popularize science, allowing more women to understand their rights.
:,“”“”.We can be independent elites in the workplace, mothers who calmly nurture life, or independent individuals who live at our own pace. What frozen egg technology brings is not only the freedom of childbearing time, but also the dignity of women to control life.
“”,--,,,,.The properly preserved egg is the warmest gift they can give to their future self.